Life Is What Life Is...

Nothing is predictable, let alone controllable.

So enjoy the ride, and never wish a day away

Monday, October 10, 2011

Coming back to the fold...

So yeah, been a while - and you know me, so this is not really unexpected.

On to the nitty gritty - we have been having issues for quite some time with our daughter - I love her, she is amazing, but somewhere along the lines (i really do take the blame for spoiling her rotten...) she has not learned to be grateful...  So - - my idea is to create a gratitude journal for her - I would really love for her to get into the habit of writing out what is on her brain - - i know it has helped me so much to be able to vomit my thoughts onto paper..... or computer, or whatever.

My bug - she is amazing.  She is SO smart.  She is SO beautiful.  She can drive me SO crazy at any given moment.


I mean, look at that girl!

So - in trying to teach her to be grateful, I find myself realizing that perhaps I should practice what I preach.. and with the time I am blessed with, because the little guy is in Kindergarten now...  I need to put my money where my mouth is, and lead by example.  SO, here is what I am grateful for right now....

I am grateful for my sweet son, who challenges me every moment in unexpected ways. Today the challenge was getting him to have patience while i figured out how to put his foulies on him. I am thankful for my daughter, and though we struggle so hard, I would not go a moment without her in my life. I am thankful that by trying to teach her thankfulness, and caring, I am getting a new appreciation for those same attributes myself. I am thankful that while my husband is away, I miss him more and love him more with each minute. I am thankful he is relatively safe, and for the most part doing something that he loves doing. I am thankful for a warm house, and security in our lives, when so many have so much less.

I hope everyone has a great day!

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Caught in a Rare Moment

It is quiet in the house.

No, seriously - the house is SILENT - minus the click of my keyboard.  The little dude is down for what has turned out to be an over 2 hour nap, the big girl is at school, and the big guy is out doing whatever it is while he is gone.

scratch that - someone had the audacity to walk past our driveway - not UP the driveway, but past it, and the dogs have gone into a barking free for all.

it was nice while it lasted.


I have been introspective lately - - but not particularly feeling the urge to write - i will work on that - I think I need to set aside time each night to write, whether I want to or not - - otherwise it's all just going to get lost up in my noodle.